104 Questions

8.25.2006 5:14 PM 11 2009 Melanie 12 comments
1. ONE OF YOUR SCARS, HOW DID YOU GET IT?
I have a scar on my left thigh that's really ugly. I was four and was playing on a car while it was being washed in the driveway, slipped, and sliced my leg open on the license plate. I never got stitches, which I'm annoyed at. If I had, I wouldn't have this ugly thing. Ah well.

2. WHAT IS ON THE WALLS IN YOUR ROOM?
A Jack Vettriano print called "The Singing Butler" custom framed as a Christmas gift (thanks mom and dad), two candle holders, and two framed pictures of Peter and me. We're HUGE fans of Jack's. I also have his "Dance Me to the End of Love", "Back Where You Belong", and "The Billy Boys".

3. WHAT DOES YOUR CELL PHONE LOOK LIKE?
I always thought it was blue, since I got it, but a few days ago I just realized that it was the silly plastic protective sticker they put on there. I've had it since January, and just realized it's a nice grey color. Who knew? Not me, I'm a dork.

4. WHAT MUSIC DO YOU LIKE TO LISTEN TO?
Right now I'm listening to Corrine Bailie Ray's "Girl Put Your Records On", David Gray's "This Year's Love", and Augustana's "Boston". That's not really extensive, but maybe I'll do a music blog soon with links to all my latest favorites.

5. DO YOU KNOW WHAT TIME YOU WERE BORN?
Maybe about 2:30pm?

6. WHAT DO YOU WANT MORE THAN ANYTHING RIGHT NOW?
This house

7. WHAT DO YOU MISS AT TIMES?
Being single and living alone, and being able to unplug my phone and sit home all day long with a book and a bottle of wine and some Dave Matthew's Band, sitting in my bathtub with a million candles, dreaming of some amazing guy who was going to sweep me off my feet.

8. WHAT IS YOUR MOST PRIZED POSSESSION?
My pictures and journals from my trips.

9. WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE SMELL?
Peter's cologne. It's from Fruits and Passions and is called Ulysse

10. DO YOU GET CLAUSTROPHOBIC?
Occasionally. Sometimes when I just can't get away from people and be by myself I just want to get lost for a little bit. Honestly, I feel claustrophobic when I don't travel. Sitting in one country, one little town, drives me insane. I start to dream about plane tickets, and feel like I'm going to go crazy sitting in one place. I feel that way when I can't see trees and mountains or ocean...Weird that being in big open spaces makes me feel claustrophobic.

11. IF YOU DIED TOMORROW?
Geez! Don't be so morbid. I'd pray for more time. I'm not done here yet.

12. THE LAST PERSON WHO MADE YOU CRY?
My stupid freaking girlie hormones. Poor Peter, there was worry that it was him, but no, just the hormones. Blast and wretch! Being a girl sucks fish.

13. WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE PERFUME?
I'm addicted to perfume. I currently have Alfred Sung's "Bai" and "Shi", Hugo Boss "Deep Red", Max Azria's "Sexy", Lancome's "Noa", DKNY's "Be Delicious", Fruits and Passions "Human" and "Geisha" and Ralph Lauren's "Romance". I have a few more on my wish list, but my favorite changes with my mood. Tomorrow, I may go buy "Magnolia Blossm" from Bath and Body works, cause it's cheap and smells incredible.

14. WHAT KIND OF HAIR DO YOU LIKE ON THE OPPOSITE SEX?
Brunette (can a guy be a brunette as the "ette" is feminine?), curly and long, but not too long. I love Peter's hair, I love Orlando Bloom's hair (NOT Legolas, more Elizabethtown), Matthew McConaughey's hair is really pretty. The link for that last page is for my mom...he he he...

15. WHERE CAN YOU SEE YOURSELF BEING PROPOSED TO AT?
The lookout over Little Qualicum Falls, with a million candles and rose petals and a gorgeous dark haired boy holding a really pretty diamond, or a twist tie.

16. DO YOU LIKE PORN?
Nope. I can't believe there was a time in history where they burned fine literature in the streets, and this stuff is allowed to be sold in gas stations and disguised as novels, ie: Harlequin Romance (aka - porn for lonely women)

17. WHO IS THE LAST PERSON YOU MADE MAD?
Crap. I likely don't know. As previously established, I have a habit of sticking my foot in my mouth and not noticing until it's too late. Someone, somewhere is likely pissed off at me at any given time. There should be a 12 step program for people like me.

20. DO YOU SPEAK A DIFFERENT LANGUAGE?
Nope, not fluently. I speak more Japanese than any language other than English, and I can ask where the bathroom is in about 5 languages, which is second in the "what to learn to say before you go" list to "No thank you, I'm full".

***Hey, where are questions 18 and 19? This is now 102 questions. Ha ha, can't pull the wool over my eyes***

21. WHAT WAS THE FIRST GIFT SOMEONE EVER GAVE YOU?
No idea, but my Grandma made me a baby blanket, which I still have.

28. WOULD YOU FALL IN LOVE KNOWING THAT THE PERSON IS LEAVING?
Peter signed a contract stating that I get to come along. Works out well for me.

***And questions 22-27?!? Okay, now we're down to 96 questions***

29. WHAT IS THE BEST WAY TO TELL SOMEONE HOW MUCH THEY MEAN TO YOU?
By not just shooting off your mouth, but actually living as though they do mean as much to you as you say. Jewelery or perfume works too.

30. SAY A NUMBER FROM ONE TO A HUNDRED:
Okay...done.

31. BLONDES, REDHEADS OR BRUNETTES?
I don't know what this is asking, but I wished for, and attempted with many boxed dyes, to be a strawberry blonde. The closest I came was the color of a ripe peach, with big blonde streaks. I cried for a long time.

32. WHAT IS ONE NUMBER YOU CALL OFTEN?
My parents.

33. WHAT ANNOYS YOU MOST?
Click here

34. HAVE YOU EVER DONE A PRANK CALL?
Yep, and have even showed up at my mom's front door, dressed like a boy, trying to sell MC Hammer tapes. Ask my mom to see pictures. It's her fault that she cut my hair like that.

39. WHAT WERE YOU DOING BEFORE YOU FILLED THIS OUT?
Eating olive tapenade and reading a book

***Okay four more questions missing. We're down to 92 questions. I wonder if they were there, and Angie deleted them? If so, what were they asking?***

40. IF YOU COULD GET PLASTIC SURGERY, WHAT WOULD IT BE?
I'd like less thighs and love handles. Apparently, even when I was a scrawny little kid I had love handles...not sure if they're ever going to go away, but I'm trying. Stupid oblique machine...ouch.

41. WHY DID YOU FILL OUT THIS SURVEY?
Shameless self promotion

42. WHAT DO YOU LIKE ON YOUR PIZZA?
Pepperoni, Ham, Salami, Bacon, Mushrooms, Pineapple, Feta. No freaky sauces please.

43. WHAT WOULD YOU DO IF ALCOHOL BECAME ILLEGAL?
Stockpile wine. Everything else I could live without. And I'd comfort my mother who would have to find something to drink other than Smirnoff Ice.

44. WHAT DO YOU WANT FOR YOUR BIRTHDAY?
A weekend away with Peter, a really nice dinner out, maybe some new perfume or jewlery or a book. Maybe a pony, can I have a pony? This one, I want this one. Watch this link a little while, the picture changes.

45. WHAT WOULD YOU DO IF IT SUDDENLY STARTED RAINING BLOOD?
Stay inside.

46. WERE YOU NAMED AFTER ANYONE?
Nope, but my first born son will be named after Peter's grandpa who killed a man eating tiger in India, to defend his family and their village. True story. I think that deserves people being named in your honor.

47. DO YOU WISH ON STARS?
Yep. I've seen more falling stars than any one person deserves to see in their lifetime. You see them a lot in Hawaii, just because there's nothing for 2500 miles in any direction.

48. WHICH FINGER[S] IS YOUR FAVORITE?
I don't like my fingers or hands. I have little girl hands. They look like they should have bubble gum pink nail polish on their little pathetic nails...sigh.

49. WHEN DID YOU LAST CRY?
Last night. I was laying next to Peter and he was falling asleep and I was just so happy I cried. Yeah, I know...

50. DO YOU LIKE YOUR HANDWRITING?
I spend hours writing for the simple purpose of making it look as pretty as I can. When my wedding invites went out, no one was allowed to help me write the addresses on them. I'd make Peter a new signature if I could, I'm completely obsessive about this. Poor guy. For a guy, he isn't even doing that bad. Yep, I love my handwriting.

51. WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE LUNCH MEAT?
For some reason, I have been craving a baloney and mustard sandwich. I love pizza sandwiches, they're comfort food for me.

52. ANY BAD HABITS?
What do you think? See answer 17.

53. WHAT IS YOUR MOST EMBARRASSING CD ON THE SHELF?
I like country. That's all I'm going to say about that.

54. IF YOU WERE ANOTHER PERSON, WOULD YOU BE FRIENDS WITH YOU?
Yeah, I think so. It may take me a bit though to warm up to me, what with all the unintentional insults, talking too much, and being so opinionated.

55. HAVE YOU EVER TOLD A SECRET YOU SWORE NOT TO TELL?
Yep. Don't tell me your secrets. I hate them, I usually tell. Sorry.

56. DO LOOKS MATTER?
Not as much as some things, but yeah, they do.

57. HOW DO YOU RELEASE ANGER?
I get in my car and yell every nasty thing I wish I could have said. That is, if I've had the self control to not say all the things I would say in my car. Don't count on it though.

58. WHAT IS YOUR SECOND HOME?
Probably my parents house, or Hawaii.

59. DO YOU TRUST OTHERS EASILY?
Yes I do. Sometimes it's dumb, but I'd rather be gullible than cynical.

60. WHAT WAS YOUR FAVORITE TOY AS A CHILD?
The Easy Bake Oven. It may have been the Oopsie Daisy Doll if I'd had more than three days to enjoy it before Shawn snapped its head off.

61. WHAT CLASS IN SCHOOL DO YOU THINK IS TOTALLY USELESS?
I think it's useless that kids now, don't know how to tell time on a clock, or look up something in a phone book, or read a road map or atlas. Why don't they teach crap like that in school anymore? I think sex ed is useless. I'm sorry, but watching a live birth video when you're a guy in sixth grade, or putting a condom on a banana for a girl, is pretty freaking useless. If the guy you're sleeping with at 11 years old can't put on a condom by himself, or the girl you're getting pregnant at 11 expects you to be the one to carry the baby, maybe you shouldn't be having sex at all hmm?

62. DO YOU HAVE A JOURNAL?
I'm currently working on three actually. This would be one.

63. DO YOU USE SARCASM?
What the heck do you think?

64. HAVE YOU EVER BEEN IN A MOSH PIT?
Yep. Not a good time really. What's the big deal?

65. WHAT DO YOU LOOK FOR IN A GUY?
The ability to be a man. Spineless really just doesn't do it for me. I'm pretty happy with my latest pick though, I think I'll keep him around a while.

66. WHAT ARE YOUR NICKNAMES?
Mellie, Mellers (Shelly ONLY), Smell (Reagan and Robyn). Tootsie Lou (Uncle Jake ONLY) Mony (Grandpa and Uncle Marv ONLY). I'm picky about nicknames, and have never understood why people think it's funny to call you something other than what you've said your name is. I've never introduced myself as Mel, when anyone asks whether I prefer to be called Melanie or Mel, I always say Melanie. I'm pretty used to Mel now, it's inevitable, but I hate anyone calling me Mony other than my Uncle Marv and my Grandpa.

67. WOULD YOU BUNGEE JUMP?
Probably not, just because I think it looks so so uncomfortable when you snap back up. I'm not really afraid of heights though. I'd hang-glide or parasail before I'd bungee jump.

68. DO YOU UNTIE YOUR SHOES BEFORE YOU TAKE THEM OFF?
I hate shoes. I really do. Ah, I do get claustrophobic in shoes, and sleeping bags for that matter. I have feet issues. I'd be barefoot or in flip flops for the rest of my life, if the weather would permit it.

69. DO YOU THINK THAT YOU HAVE STRONG POINTS?
Yeah I do. I don't like to talk about them though.

70. WHAT'S YOUR FAVORITE ICE CREAM FLAVOR?
Ben and Jerry's (the two men I love as much as Peter) used to make this ice cream called One Sweet Whirled, which was freaking incredible. It's discontinued, so now I like bubble gum (because few others do and I don't have to share if I have it) and anything with caramel in it. Phish Food from B&J is yummy.

71. WHAT IS YOUR SHOE SIZE?
I have stupidly big feet for how short I am. They're 8.5. I hate my feet.

72. WHAT ARE YOUR FAVORITE COLORS?
Red and Brown

73. HOW MANY WISDOM TEETH DO YOU HAVE?
Four unfortunately. I hate the dentist more than most things.

76. WHAT ARE YOU LISTENING TO RIGHT NOW?
The Augustana CD. They're my new favorite, just bought the CD a few hours ago.

77. LAST THING YOU ATE?
He he he. Peter and I didn't go out to eat for 27 days before tonight. We just went out for dinner and I ate...um...fine...Steak, scallops, mashed potatoes, cream of potato cheese soup, a mushroom cap, and a piece of really good bread with mediocre spinach dip. Oh and the manager let us sample 5 different bottles of wine, we ordered one to share between five of us, and then they gave us another complimentary bottle, so yeah, a little wine. I'm feeling a little sick right now.

79. THE FIRST THING YOU NOTICE IN THE OPPOSITE SEX?
Forearms and then hair.

***Where was question 78? You think you're so tricky don't you? 91 questions you liar***

80. DO YOU LOVE THE PERSON WHO POSTED THIS?
What do you mean? The person who wrote all these questions and got bored at 91 so screwed up the numbers thus going against every organized bone in my body and screwing with my head and making me long to re number the entire thing so that it reads 91 questions? Not to mention that the font is ugly and the size of the font fluctuates? (You didn't notice? NO? That's because I had to change it or lose sleep). No, can't say I love them right now.

81. HOW ARE YOU TODAY?
Pretty happy actually. I had a great evening with good people, good food and good wine. Not a lot to complain about.

82. FAVORITE DRINK?
Coffee. Wine. Diet Coke. In that order. I love Malibu rum, put Malibu in anything and I'll drink it. I really need to drink more water.

83. FAVORITE ALCOHOLIC DRINK?
Oh! You mean... I wasn't...? Oh.

84. FAVOURITE SPORT?
NFL football, and not just because Peter likes it, something about football makes sense to me for some reason. Peter loves baseball which I think is a miserable boring excuse for a sport who's only redeeming quality is that....umm....wait, nope, it's just boring. Even live. The best thing about the MLB game I went to was the hot dog. Okay, that's the only redeeming thing about baseball, the food you get at the game.

85. HAIR COLOR?
Brown. I used to dye it every color I could think of. See number 31. I haven't dyed my hair in three years, or cut it in as long. I've never been complimented more on my hair color as I do when I just leave it alone.

86. EYE COLOR?
I had a drunk guy approach me in my carnie days, and he layed down on the counter that you stand behind, and he asked me this. I asked him what color they looked like (trying to figure out how drunk he was) and he said they were gold. They're light brown and sometimes look really light. One eye is significantly lighter than the other, which makes me nearly a freak, but not as much as the fact that I worked as a carnie.

87. DO YOU WEAR GLASSES?
I'm supposed to when I read, or sit at the computer, but Peter thinks I look dorky in them, so no. I will admit, the frames I've had since I was 18 don't really work for me anymore.

88. SIBLINGS?
LOL - Ummm...13 total, last time I checked, including half, step and in-law siblings. I'm sure there are more though, my father was well, a bit of a whore. So I don't really know. We met one in a gas station once, by noticing that our last names were the same, and had no prior knowledge of her before that.

89. FAVORITE MONTH?
December. I really like Christmas. A lot.

90. FAVORITE FOOD?
Pasta. Dr Atkins can kiss my expanding butt.

91. LAST MOVIE YOU WATCHED?
Bewitched. I would like to own every outfit Nicole Kidman wears in that movie. And have the body to pull it off.

92. FAVORITE DAY OF THE YEAR?
December 25. OH! or maybe February 12, (my anniversary)

93. ARE YOU TOO SHY TO ASK SOMEONE OUT?
Nope, just have no desire to be the guy. If Peter hadn't done it I wouldn't have and then where would I be? Really, REALLY glad he did though.

94. SUMMER OR WINTER?
Fall please.

95. HUGS OR KISSES?
Depends who you are. If you're my Granny, a hug will be fine thanks, if you're Peter, well...umm...Can I answer the same way I did the last question?

96. RELATIONSHIPS OR ONE NIGHT STANDS?
Relationships because they're harder and have better benefits.

97. WHO IS THE MOST LIKELY TO ANSWER THESE QUESTIONS?
Probably Robyn.

98. WHO IS THE LEAST LIKELY TO ANSWER THESE QUESTIONS?
Ummm...Reagan because he never blogs.

99. WHAT BOOKS ARE YOU READING?
The Moor, but Laurie King (Cool Sherlock Holmes writer). The Horse and His Boy by CS Lewis, two devotionals, my bible, and this other novel I got called...umm...Last Light? Maybe?

100. WHAT'S ON YOUR MOUSE PAD?
A cool old looking map of the world.

101. FAVORITE BOARD GAME?
Scattegories. It's the only game I'm always able to beat Peter at.

102. WHAT DID YOU WATCH ON TV LAST NIGHT?
Friends.

103. WHO WERE YOU WITH LAST NIGHT?
Peter and Loren.

104. WHAT IS THE FIRST THING YOU THINK OF WHEN YOU WAKE UP?
Wow my husband is hot. Maybe he'll make coffee... I can't believe how much I sleep (usually 9 hours/night minimum). What time is it?

And I tag...Robyn and Kathy and my mom.

Un-freaking-believable

8.23.2006 3:49 PM 11 2009 Melanie 5 comments
I am amazing. I just played my first game of Madden, and beat my husband 69-52.Tatum Bell rushed for nearly 400 yards and averaged over 20 per carry. Rod Smith made 4 touchdowns, Lelie and Putzier each had 1. I'm incredible. I'm every mans dream wife, or Peter's at the very least. He didn't even try to let me win, just picked a team that was a bit inferior to mine, since it was my first day, but I creamed him. I was never behind for a minute. I'm off to the Hall of Fame, I'm goin' to Disneyland baby! My third down conversions weren't that great, but know why? Because I just never need them. Between my killer offensive line, and Mr. Bell, I am well on my way to the Superbowl. Pittsburgh, eat your heart out. Seattle, get wet! It is the day of the Bronco, and a major victory in my married life. I'm off to gloat...and enjoy the very long backrub I just earned myself. Poor guy, he just never saw me coming...ah, the sweet taste of victory!

Won't Back Down - Songs to Encourage

8.21.2006 12:42 PM 11 2009 Melanie 5 comments
It's hard to describe, without a two page blog (not beneath me, but not necessary right now), all that's been going on lately. It feels like everything is changing, and a lot of that change is scary, and it's hard to see the big picture right now, and to believe that God has control over it all. Sometimes, without really thinking about it, I think he's up in Heaven wringing his hands, worrying how my life will work out. I know he's not doing that, but the little problems that can sweep in and consume my thoughts, sometimes seem hard to deal with since I don't feel like I have the whole picture. I forget sometimes, that I do have the whole picture. I know the end of this story. Not to make it sound too trite, because that's not how my problems appear to me right now; they seem insurmountable, but really, at the end of the day, God comes through for me and always has. And the end of the story is in the Bible, and I know that it's all going to be okay, even though it doesn't feel like it.
Another great artist I've found, is Jill Phillips
who is pretty incredible, and has some really beautiful songs out. Go to this page and listen to the song "Never Let Me Down". I've copied the lyrics here.

I guess I learned the hard way

This world can’t give me what I need
Even though the house I built on sand
Was swallowed by the sea
You never let me down
You never let me down
You never let me down
You never let me down

Sometimes I think I’ll only be content
With things that money buys
Its like trying to squeeze water from a stone
It will not provide
You never let me down
You never let me down
You never let me down
You never let me down

You might let me cry
You might let me sing
You might let me feel a fraction of your suffering
(You might let me share your suffering)
But you won’t let me down
You never let me down
If I could just stop striving
And surrender to your holy power
I know your loving arms will lift me up
And never let me down
You never let me down

I love the theology displayed here. It's awesome. This is who God says he is, regardless of what I'm going through. I love it. On the same page, the song "By A Thread" is more where I feel like I'm at now, and that's okay too, God understands that I'm human, that some days I'm just going to be tired, and sad and discouraged.

I can’t help but feel like there’s something missing
I feel the same old truth but this time its not convincing
All your promises
Are hard to swallow when
I’m hanging on by a thread
I still believe every word you said
But I can’t get it down from my heart to my head
I remember the story about someone who needed
Help with his unbelief even when he believed it
You didn’t come to heal
The ones who never feel
They’re hanging on by a thread
I still believe every word you said
But I can’t get it down to my heart to my head
I need you to make a connection
Make a connection please
Its foolishness to hide
You must know that I am
Hanging on by a thread
I still believe every word you said
But I can’t get it down, down, down
I’m hanging on by a thread
I still believe every word you said
But I can’t get it down from my heart to my head
Down from my heart to my head

I love the line, "It's foolishness to hide, you must know that I am..." I forget that God knows me better than I do. He already knows that I'm scared, admitting it to him doesn't surprise him or make him disappointed in me, quite the contrary, I think he wants us to be honest with him, no matter where we're at. What kind of a marriage would I have if I only ever talked to Peter when I felt wonderful and great, and happy. None. What I love about our relationship is that it doesn't change based on how we feel. God is the same. He wants me to come to him with all of it, even when I'm angry at him. David did it; read the Psalms. Sometimes I find that God most speaks to me when I'm honest with him about exactly where I'm at, because that is true humility. Being able to be really known for exactly what you are and where you're at, both good and bad, and be willing to surrender it all.
Something I've really felt God saying to me lately, in a lot of areas, is that I need to trade in my version of reality. What if God showed up and told me, that although my experience in this world has taught me that if I touch something hot, I will burn my hand, that that was no longer true? What would I do? Belief is to say, "Okay then, thank you for that, have a great day." Faith is to reach out to something hot based on the belief that what God says is true, regardless of what I experience to be real. We like to say that Faith is believing the bible is true without seeing that manifested on earth, to non-Christians, to get them to believe what they can't see, but we don't like it turned around on us. If my experience doesn't line up with the Word of God, and his character found there, it has to be scrapped as a source of truth in my life. Doing that feels a little like reaching out to a fire trusting that it won't burn me. But what if, what if I spent my whole life based on what this world dictates to me to be real? I can't do that. I have to live as though the spiritual realm is actually more real than this place I live, whether I see it or not. I have to live as though what the bible says is true, even if I experience something that doesn't line up with that.
For now, that's a hard road to walk. To maintain belief in what I know to be true of God, even if all around me, it doesn't look that way. God is obviously wanting to teach me something here, and the tradgedy is not that I'm going through a hard time, but rather, that I wouldn't use it to learn more about God and who I am as his child, in the midst of it.
This song, "Won't Back Down" is another Mat Kearney song that's just really pretty, and don't worry mom, doesn't rap at all. Have a listen, it's number 13 on the little player.

You woke the morning up
Running off my darkest night
The longest fight I've seen
Here goes a chance I know
Cashing in on all my chips
Let all my ships come fly
These days, a little bit longer than the last
And all of these ways, a little bit stronger than the past
And your light, found my bottle in the night
Gave me second life, kept me in this fight
And I won't back down
I won't turn around and around
And I won't back down
Doesn't matter what comes crashing down
I'm still gonna stand my solid ground
You found me once and for all
I laid it down in the sinking ground
The hopeless undertow
Singing out the gentle sound
Rattling through my smoking screens
My broken dreams last night
These days, a little bit longer than the last
And all of your ways, a little bit stronger than the past
And all of your light, found my bottle in the night
Kept me in this fight and gave me second life
And I won't back down
I won't turn around and around
And I won't back down
Doesn't matter what comes crashing down
I'm still gonna stand on solid ground

Hallelujah ripped through my veins
I heard the hammer drop
My blood in the rain
Hallelujah came like a train
When all is lost
All is left to gain
And I won't back down
I won't turn around and around
And I won't back down
Doesn't matter what comes crashing down
I'm still gonna stand on solid ground

Hallelujah, hallelujah

I love that he says "I won't turn around and around". Sometimes I feel like I'm doing great, it's okay, I'm going to be fine, praise God, and then the next second, I'm all turned around, and worried and scared. I can't doubt the word of God just because I don't see things happen the way I want, when I want. No matter what, God has my best interest at heart, and I can trust that. Worship always encourages me, and these songs of late, as well as some promises in scripture that I'm standing on, and won't back down from. This is what God says, and that's the end of it.

"There is no one like the God of Jeshurun, who rides on the heavens to help you and on the clouds in his majesty. The eternal God is your refuge, and underneath are the everlasting arms. He will drive out your enemy before you, saying "Destroy him!" So Israel will live in safety alone; Jacob's spring is secure in a land of grain and new wine, where the heavens drop dew. Blessed are you, O Israel! Who is like you, a people saved by the Lord? He is your shield and helper and your glorious sword. Your enemies will cower before you, and you will trample down their high places." - Deuteronomy 33:26-29

So much for not writing a two page blog.

Summer Snapshots

8.17.2006 10:39 AM 11 2009 Melanie 8 comments
This is me having breakfast at Perkins (something similar to a Smitty's) a few weeks back. Peter and I have not gone out for a meal now in two and a half weeks, which for us, is a pretty big deal. I'm running out of dinner ideas, but I love to cook, and it's just insane how much money we were spending on food. So now we're eating at home, but since restaurants are the only thing to do in Gillette, other than going to the gym, we've been finding other ways to amuse ourselves at home. We've had people over, we read together in the evening, watch a little TV, and have gotten rather addicted to Yahtzee. Yep, we're a cute little old couple.
The Morel boys are planning a backpacking trip. They're going to hike into the Bighorn mountains, and sleep under the stars, and freeze in their sleeping bags at 12,000 feet. It's about a 20 mile hike with about 40lb packs and they're going to do it in about three days. I wish I could go, sounds like fun, but I'm really glad Peter gets to do a boy thing with his dad and brother. Did I mention that his dad is 58 years old? I so hope that Peter is in that good of shape when he's that age. We all think his dad is lying about his age, he must be only 43 or so... So last weekend we all went to the trail and hiked about four miles of it, and had a really good time.
This sign welcomes you into the Cloud Peak Wilderness. Naomi was such a trooper, and had an awesome time. We couldn't believe that she kept up with us all. We always say that Naomi has a recipe on her back that says, "Energy? Just add people!" She's such an extrovert it's hillarious. We had a great time with her, especially when Peter got her a little walking stick.
This was a pretty little lake that we sat at and ate some grapes. Naomi didn't need the rest apparently, and just ran all over with Peter and her dad looking for big rocks to throw in the water.
This is sunset from our balcony. We've gotten some pretty amazing ones these last few days. I'm loving it. I love the sky over the plains, there's nothing like it sometimes.
Speaking of the sky, we've had some pretty amazing storms here lately. This is me on our balcony, watching some incredible clouds.
I was a little worried about tornadoes, it dropped about 15 degrees in about two hours here, and the wind kicked up really fast, but apparently, they just don't get them very often here. About 30 miles south of here they got one a few years back, but Gillette has been safe.
Either way, I couldn't believe the clouds. You, of course, can't see how quickly they were moving, but this was just a long seething, churning mass of clouds, and they felt so close. I wish we could have turned to the right and gotten a picture of the huge bank of clouds coming in from the other side, and they were colliding right above our house. It was fantastic. Anyway, there's some pictures of our summer so far. I should start packing our house, since we're moving in a few days, but I just can't stand the prospect of doing that. I HATE packing and moving. And I may have to do it three times in the next two months. Yipes. Anyone wanna come over and help me pack? I'll make you the most fantastic dinner, I promise, and provide you with any beverage you like, and essentially wait on you hand and foot, just so long as I don't have to pack. Any takers?

More about me...if you're not on overload already

8.15.2006 9:57 AM 11 2009 Melanie 10 comments

Okay, Carrie tagged me, and like her, I'm a big fan of the surveys.

1. WHAT TIME DO YOU WAKE?
9:00am


2. IF YOU COULD EAT LUNCH WITH ONE FAMOUS PERSON WHO WOULD IT BE?
The only people I can think of are dead...but I guess my chances aren't that great anyway, so I'm going to pick CS Lewis.

3. GOLD OR SILVER?
White gold

4.WHAT WAS THE LAST FILM YOU SAW AT THE CINEMA?
Umm...Pirates of the Carribbean 2? Not too bad.


5. FAVORITE TV SHOWS?
Iron Chef America, Gilmore Girls, That 70's Show, and Friends


6. WHAT DO YOU HAVE FOR BREAKFAST?
Honey Bunches of Oats with Peaches, and 5 cups of coffee (completely serious) Unless it's Saturday, then I get bacon, eggs, toast, juice and 5 cups of coffee.


7. WHAT WOULD YOU HATE TO BE LEFT IN A ROOM WITH?
Ben Stiller


8. CAN YOU TOUCH YOUR NOSE WITH YOUR TONGUE?
Not a chance

9. WHAT INSPIRES YOU?
Peter. People that live life abundantly, and know their callings and are able to follow them. Luke and Naomi inspire me.

10. WHAT'S YOUR MIDDLE NAME?
Rachelle

11. BEACH, CITY OR COUNTRY?
Beach or Country. I like the city in small doses

12. SUMMER OR WINTER?
Fall. Best of both worlds. I love winter clothes and laying out in the sun.


13. FAVORITE ICE CREAM?
Ben and Jerry's Phish Food (Chocolate ice cream with caramel and marshmallow ribbons, and little chocolate fishies)


14. BUTTERED, PLAIN OR SALTED POP CORN?
I like butter and salt. I'm not a big fan of all those freaky popcorn shakes you can use.


15. FAVORITE COLOR?
Red


16. FAVORITE CAR?
A Toyota FJ Cruiser

17. FAVORITE SANDWICH FILLING?
Olive Tapenade.

18. WHAT CHARACTERISTICS DO YOU DESPISE?
Male Chauvanists (aka wussy little boys trapped in mens bodies), people who never learned basic manners or choose not to employ them.


20. FAVORITE FLOWERS?
Fire and Ice Roses, tulips, and calla lillies


21. IF YOU HAD A BIG WIN IN THE LOTTERY, HOW LONG WOULD YOU WAIT TO TELL PEOPLE? Honestly? Probably a while. And then, I'd never tell anyone other than my closest family. I hate what money and jealousy do to relationships.

22. FIZZY OR STILL WATER AS A DRINK?
Fizzy water, like San Pelegrino and stuff. Nope, no thanks, just tap water works for me.


23. WHAT COLOR IS YOUR BATHROOM?
Black, Ivory and a rusty orange color


25. WHERE WOULD YOU RETIRE TO?
Vancouver Island. Anywhere there is fine, so long as it's a log home, with a barn for my horse.


26. CAN YOU JUGGLE?
Nope, and no desire to learn.


27. FAVORITE DAY OF THE WEEK?
Saturday, because of breakfast, and nothing to do but hang out with Peter


28. RED OR WHITE WINE?
I like both. I'm loving red more every time I drink it. For red, my favorite would have to be Wolf Blass Yellow Label Cabernet Sauvignon, and white is Santa Margherita Pinot Grigio. We did try a red the other night at a restaurant that was $75 a glass, and it was unbelievable. Yummy.

29. WHAT DID YOU DO FOR YOUR LAST BIRTHDAY?
Peter made me breakfast, and showered me with presents, and took me for dinner at a cool old restaurant, that some US Presidents have eaten at. But the one before, I was whisked away to Saltspring Island to a cabin on the beach, with a huge hot tub for just us. We went hiking, and out for a wonderful dinner, and then took the ferry to Victoria, where we got another great hotel room, had a romantic dinner at Il Terrazzo, and a walk along the inner harbour. Can you tell the difference between what there is to do for fun in Gillette, versus BC?

30. DO YOU CARRY A DONOR CARD?
No, but I'm registered as an organ donor, they can have everything but my skin and eyes, if I die.

31. WHO DO YOU LEAST EXPECT TO SEND THIS BACK TO YOU?
Pass.

32. WHO IS THE PERSON YOU EXPECT TO SEND THIS BACK FIRST?
Pass


34. DID YOU NOTICE QUESTION 19 WAS MISSING?
Only because this was about the third time I've read this.

35. WHAT CD IS IN YOUR PLAYER RIGHT NOW?
A compilation of cool worship songs I found online, mostly hymns. The Mat Kearney CD, and maybe Lauren Hill?

And I'm tagging Peter because it's about time he blogged again, and Robyn.

Lovin' Taco Pete

8.10.2006 9:59 AM 11 2009 Melanie 9 comments
Doesn't everyone? These are his two sisters and me, in Hawaii. Gosh my butt was big then, but ooh, my tan. I miss the tan. Ahem, anyway. Peter had this roommate at this time, who was a funny guy, but always said on Friday night, "Awesome! It's Weekend Pete! I love Weekend Pete!" As do I. Peter would let his sisters fro his hair, and we'd all go to Denny's and complain that just because this Denny's sat up on a hill with an amazing ocean view, was no reason they could charge $11 for chicken strips. We'd all get fries and cokes and laugh. When my best buddy Lindsay was in Hawaii doing her DTS, we all just had the best time.
This is my caffine addicted darling. This is the way to my man's heart. Cooking is nice, but he'd rather eat olives and crackers and cheese, much to my chagrin. However, pick up a latte for him on the way home, and I can have anything I want. A cool coffee mug, or a flavor syrup for his espresso machine will have the same effect.
Peter has a variety of nicknames. Taco Pete is one that his sister Shelly and I gave him, thanks to his running us to Taco Bell for late night taco cravings. Though he doesn't like being called Pete very much, he does let me, on occasion. He doesn't really look like a Pete though. I'm not allowed to call him sickly sweet sounding names like "sweetheart" or "pookie" (umm...eww?), or stuff like that. I'm allowed to call him "babe "or "baby" or "honey" and that's all. There was this couple on TV last night that called each other "monkey" which I though was totally weird. It's usually just "babe". Does every couple eventually have this conversation? "So, umm, what do we call each other. Are you okay with being called this?"
I love that Peter is a guy's guy. We've decided to label him a "rugged metrosexual", which I think suits him well. For those who are older than 35, a metrosexual is a term for a guy who is concerned about his appearance to the point of nearly appearing gay, but yet are actually quite straight. Just very well dressed, and taken care of. Essentially, a metrosexual is someone who washes their hair more than once a week. He's also really freaking smart. He has a knack for remembering names and places, and will sit and look at a road atlas forever, memorizing distances between places, and populations of most major cities. He's a walking tour guide, a history buff (his dad has degrees in Classical Humanities, or Greek and Roman History, and his Master's in Education, so Peter comes by it honestly I suppose), a jack of all trades, and master of most. He knows sports stats that completely confuse me, on everything from tennis, to football, and baseball. One day I'm going to make him go on Jeapordy and make some money off him.
Ahh, my two favorite guys. Loren has been my very good friend for ages now, 8 years I think, and regardless of our age difference (14 years) we've always gotten along really well. He's like a big brother to me, even though there were rumors of us being together for quite some time. Possibly spawned, or at least spurred, by Loren just being mischevious and holding my hand when we'd randomly run into someone we know. It was always funny to us that people would put us together. When Peter was about to meet Loren for the first time, he asked me what he was like, and I was shocked when I realized, "Well, he's a lot like you." I always said if I could find a guy like Loren who I could feel romantically about, I'd marry him and live happily ever after. Cross your fingers, Loren may actually come visit us next week, which we'd love. He and Peter get along great.
This is where the "rugged" part of "rugged metrosexual" comes in. No girl wants a guy that's prettier than she is. (Careful Shawn). I love that Peter likes to climb trees and mountains and get dirty and be outside. I am significantly worried that our boys will be just like him, and I'm going to have to learn to be very easy going:
"Gabriel Willam Morel,(what we're naming our little boy) tell me, WHAT is that strange creature in our bathtub?"
"It's a ferret, or a weasel, or...something. I'm going to catch mice to feed it. Do you think it will eat mice?"
"Darling, I'm very sorry, but you will NOT keep a weasel or ferret or any living creature in the bathtub. And you may not feed it mice. You need to let it go, and pick it up with a blanket or something, I don't want you getting rabies, if I have to take you to the hospital that will be the third time this month. If your dad goes to take a shower and sees that thing in there, he's going to flip out, and then you'll have to stay inside like normal kids and watch tv during the day, instead of playing ouside".
"But MOOOM, dad said it would be cool! We've tried to give him bugs but they kept crawling away out of the tub. Even the really big ones! Dad thought mice would be better, he's looking for some now. Do you have some cheese we could use?"
"Gabe, could you ask your father to come here please, and preferably without any strange creatures in his tow?"
Yep, this is going to be my life, a few short years from now. I'm going to need a bigger coffee cup.
This was just a little while ago in Jackson Hole. The first time I took Peter to Victoria, there's this big stuffed bear on Government Street. I wanted to take a picture of him hugging it, but then I didn't want to stand there and hug it myself. We had this huge hillarious yelling match on the street, causing people to stare as we yelled "Hug the BEAR!!" and me, "NO, stop yelling at me, people are looking". Peter ended up with this hillarious picture of me standing next to the bear with my head on it's shoulder looking very defeated. Now whenever we see a large stuffed creature, a hugging picture is a must, to avoid another argument.
Oh, the fun I have with this man. He cracks me up all the time, whether it's because he gets mad playing Phase10 and freaks out at Carlie (very funny), or I come in and he's dancing in the living room in a pair of my jeans, and threating to "just go check the mail, I'll be right back." The other day, while I was chatting with his mom, he snuck downstairs and had Shelly straighten his hair. He came back looking just like Kid Rock and tried to make out with me, which scared me to death. He's shameless, and serious, and silly and smart. He's talented and passionate about life and God, and sings like an angel. I know I say this a lot, but, ahh, what a guy. I'm the luckiest girl in the world. Next time you see him, ask him to do his radio voice, you'll laugh until you cry.

Delicious Peace

8.03.2006 11:09 AM 11 2009 Melanie 5 comments

This is a cool site that I found that provides the best of two issues I am very passionate about: good coffee, and being a good and loving human being no matter to whom, and if they deserve it. And in that order, because until I've had my coffee, I'm not at all a good and loving person.
Here's and blurb from the article:

Brewing "Peace" Among Jewish, Muslim, and Christian Coffee Farmers
At times, a really inspiring project arises that offers an opportunity to weave together the most important threads of social justice and religious acceptance. Mirembe Kawomera "Delicious Peace" Coffee is such a project. The coffee comes from the Fair Trade Certified™ Peace Kawomera Cooperative in Eastern Uganda, formed in 2004 as a strong interfaith alliance of 558 Jewish, Christian, and Muslim coffee farmers. The co-op produces high quality Arabica coffee, and is sold as "Mirembe Kawomera 'Delicious Peace' Coffee" by Thanksgiving Coffee Co., which has established a close partnership with the co-op.
The farmers and their communities made a conscious commitment in 2004 to work together across religious lines for the benefit of all, and to demonstrate that peace among religions is possible. "We think this farmer coalition is unique in all of Africa," said cooperative director JJ Keki. "Today the world is in pain. We want to prove that a better way is to be proud of who you are, respect each other, and make something great together."
For Paul Katzeff, CEO of Thanksgiving Coffee Co., the opportunity to support this extraordinary project represents the fulfillment of his 34 years as the innovative leader of the socially conscious coffee roaster: "The Members of the Mirembe Kawomera Cooperative in Uganda exemplify the hope and dreams of the 60's generation, my generation." Mr. Katzeff said, "Peace through tolerance, hope through cooperation, and justice born of equality. Deep in the heart of Africa 558 coffee farmers decided to grow the size of the pie instead of fighting over the scarce little there was. Their courage and creativity in this worldwide time of strife and conflict is a story that the world's leaders need to hear. I am proud of the fact that the universe brought this story to us at Thanksgiving Coffee Co., and now, let us all spread this story of coffee and peace. It's a story for all generations; their coffee is exquisite in both flavor and spirit."
Thanksgiving Coffee is determined to support these Ugandan farmers and their example of peace and tolerance. The company has established a profit-sharing program to help the cooperative fund community projects in education, healthcare and business development, and to build increased capacity to grow and process more coffee. One dollar from the sale of every package is donated to the Peace Kawomera Cooperative with the goal of raising an additional $74,000 over the course of this year to support peace and cooperation in Uganda.
Thanksgiving Coffee has committed to grow sales as the cooperative increases its production. "We are just fundraisers for small coffee-growing villages around the world," Katzeff affirmed. "The cultivation of coffee is a noble profession, one which, however, needs consumers. We urge people to buy, drink, and enjoy this wonderful tasting coffee from Peace Kawomera Cooperative.

I think this is such a cool idea. If you have a credit card, order a pound of coffee, from their website. It's no more expensive than a pound of Starbucks coffee, which, if you don't have a Tim Hortons near you, is the only kind of coffee to drink. Don't even get me started on Folgers...(the F word of coffee). This would make a great gift to those hard to shop for people, and a way to spend your money that you can feel good about. I don't know any Muslims that I can be kind to in the name of true Christian love, so to me, this is a cool opportunity.
Peter and I, because we don't really have a home church, look for unique ways to tithe our money. This is one of those ways. We haven't gotten the coffee yet, but I'll keep you posted on how it is.